This is an FYI piece about psychoacoustics and presbycusis, the gradual, inevitable loss of high frequency hearing with age. TL;DR — old age may not be as bad as you fear.
Many or most of you are young enough that at most you’re obsessing about having to strain to hear anything above maybe 15 kHz. I’m in the back half of my 70s now. For me, anything above 9 kHz is silence. Yet when I got hooked on headphones some seven years ago, that cut-off was 12 kHz. I’m sure many older audio addicts are reluctant to mention their age or report on hearing loss. But not being invested in expensive gear, I have no such concerns.
What high frequency cut-off numbers don’t tell you is the subjective experience. Psychoacoustics is real. My brain continually monitors the nerve signal from the inner ears. If it finds a loss has occurred, it starts checking to see if the change is stable and/or predictable. It next evaluates whether the change negatively impacts survival, based on what seems to be hard-wired criteria. If so, it compares the new signal with its prior experience templates and uses them to supply any missing data it can locate. The result of this is that my experience both in daily life and in listening to recordings contains a typical high frequency component.
Back in my (acoustic) guitar playing days I spent an embarrassing amount of money chasing just the right timbre in ever more expensive instruments. I also played several other acoustic instruments and once roomed with a viola player. Whether I play the guitar now or am listening to recordings, I am not hearing any change in timbre. Whatever high freq. components it takes to make an acoustic instrument sound like it should, my brain is seamlessly supplying it. If, in actuality, there are spikes above my 9k cutoff, I’m blissfully unaware of them. Same goes for people’s voices in daily life.
That said, it’s not all roses and rainbows. I only have the crudest form of stereo hearing after an ear infection loss several years ago in the 1.5 to 2 kHz range in one ear. This effects my ability to localize sound sources in daily life. My brain can back-fill the missing amplitude information from the good ear side, but not directionality. In addition, any air frequency sense of room acoustics has been missing for years.
This also applies to presbyopia, by the way. I have quite a cocktail of cataracts, macular degeneration, and glaucoma. My brain is able to recover maybe a 20/25 or 20/30 visual field in familiar environments. But in unfamiliar environments, or with unfamiliar elements in familiar environments, there is a greater level of blurring. There is also a swath of vision in one eye that is totally blurred out for half a second when looking at unfamiliar content. But then my brain fills in the missing area using data from the other eye.
One final point — a lot of this is sleep dependent. The brain does a lot of pattern analysis during sleep, so after a poor night’s sleep both audition and vision are noticeably degraded.